Sealed with a kiss!

I keep getting comments from many of my readers such as “boy you are confused”, “take time for yourself” , “be alone”..And as I sat there waiting to respond.. I thought to myself..WAIT! Am I the only one that is confused? Aren’t we all? I can easily point the fingers at you and ask you do you always know what you want?

I mean isn’t life a process and confused is a BIG part of it? After instant messaging a “friend” and both agreeing that we were insane! , he told me that confusion is natural, if it did not exist in our daily lives we would not be living. So either I chose to live or don’t, Well, if you put it that way!

I may not know what I want but the one thing I do know is that I am living life. Sometimes you will be faced with that difficult decision of doing what is morally right vs doing what feels right. I am tired of following the status quo and I choose to follow my heart! I have done the “right” thing adhering to everyone elses standards and for those of you who may know did not end up on a good note.

Just because I choose to blog about it does not mean that I am a mutant to the adult world I guarantee that many of you have or currently are experiencing what I am going through right now (confusion ). Whether it is choosing your outfit for the day, if you are going to eat the salad or the burger, going to the gym or staying in, and relationships are a part of it!

Which leads me to my new set of blogs..Which will be a compilation of “rules” that I like to call the rules of dating or dating etiquette!

Rule number 1…

1. Does kissing him the first time, give him the right to kiss you a second time. Let me give you an example.

Example, you meet a guy and after several times of talking/meeting you develop this friendship that may or may lead up to something more. You decide to explore this further and go out on a date. The fact that you two had this strong intellectual and somewhat of a physical attraction leads you to believe that you two just might hit it off. The date goes well, and you are kind of feeling him and he is feeling you. After the second or third drink, you decide to take the next step and see if the intellectual attraction has the potential for a chemical attraction, you down a couple of drinks and and viola you kiss!

Umm wait a minute WTF happened?! That was like kissing my brother! (not that I have). You make up some excuse to part ways telling him that you are too tired for a night cap and think …Woah, that was Awkward,

So now here is the dilemma I am faced with. How can you tell him that! That you thought you may be into him but realized that you are not into him? Without hurting his feelings! You have established this friendship, you think he is cute, you like chilling with him but the chemistry is not there. You have now crossed the point of no return, messing up the “friendship” with a kiss.

The next time you see him, he tries to kiss you again, you pull away, Ok wait a minute, just becasue I kissed you the first time does not give you the right to think you can do it again, you pull away. Now I am upset are there any rules to this? The rules of kissing? Am I being difficult, even if I was into him, chemistry wise, just because we kissed once does not automatically give you an unlimited free kiss coupon. Is is just me? Are there rules when it comes down to this?
I mean it is not his fault, and I am sure, we have all done this at some point in our lives, but it just made me think..!