When god winks on love, and hes just not that into you because of your female brain?n

Like many women out there, I am trying to figure out the great mysteries of life and unfortunately a big component of this is  love,  relationships, & men. Its sad to admit this but many of us spend countless amount of hours, days, or even months infatuated, infuriated , disappointed or simply trying to figure out men.  We spend half of our time wasting brain cells in trying to over-analyze, psychoanalyze, or simply trying to decode many of the  signs that he is or is not giving us. Based on our research we then decide if we should or should not be happy. I think that all this unnecessary research is  a recipe for disaster, or ending up in an insane asylum.

In order to maintain my sanity, I  began to buy many relationship books including Hes just not that into you, Its called a break up because its broken, the Female Brain and… When God Winks on Love. After all that reading I can honestly say that I am even more confused than when  I first started.

The female brain, states that we are emotional creatures, and that women are wired differently than men, we are more nurturing, emotional,etc etc..Well duh!

He;s Just not that into you, basically gives you the signs when a man is not into you…

“Its called a break up because its broken”, reminds you why he is a jerk and why you should move on!

And my latest disappointment,

When god Winks on Love…

Excerpt:

You are destined to have a soul mate, if you have faith in the outcome, the picture of love you have in your mind can be yours, so trust and learn to read the God Wink is a persona signal or message directly from a higher power, usually , but not always,in the form of a coincidence.. Squire Rushnell

The book goes on to give examples of God winks in peoples lives and and how if we would only pay attention to these Winks we would be living happily ever after..

OK are you kidding me..I have to admit, sometimes I get up in wanting to  believe that true love is on the other side of the rainbow and that the Unicorns will lead me to my Prince Charming. But come on seriously GOD WINKS? If I were to sit here and listen to all these signals that the invisible man from above is or is not  sending me..I would be in a whole lot of trouble!

Being a writer myself, I am not bashing the author of the book , it was edited quite well! I do  believe that there is some truth behind it,  that there are certain circumstances, situations, or whatever you may call it that may lead you on a path towards a certain person, place, or thing but ultimately in my opinion it is  you who you decide who you end up with. But come on! A God Wink?!

I guess what I am trying to say women, is that there is no book, person, or thing that can help you find your perfect relationship or man or life. Its called “life” because you are living..You are bound to get hurt, make logical and illogical decisions, mistakes, and endure a whole lot of  tears, pain, and heartache. If you sit there and read about it and not be about it, you could be missing out on someone or something incredible. Weather he makes you happy for that one month, year, or a life time at least you are experiencing something.

You will never know what you want or who you want if you are too afraid to jump into the water!

Ok venting done!