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Cubs vs Cougars

cubs1As you can tell by the picture this is not a baseball blog and if that was what you wanted to read MOVE ON! For those of you that don’t know me, I blog about my relationship questions, men, boys, life, emotions etc..And I call it STUCK ON STUPID- Stupid is an adjective, it describes  person, place, or time in your life where you morally know what to do but because of your emotions are too blinded to do so..Now back to the blog..

Stupid question?!

OK So I know I am not a spring chicken but then again I am not an old hen. I am a 29- year old single mom who takes pride in her outer and inner beauty.  I work out 5 days a week, drink my 8 glasses of water a day and eat all my fruits and Veggies. As a result of this , I think I look good and feel even better! As a result of this,I don’t know if I am emitting some sort of pheromones, or aura  but lately I have been attracting younger men, and when I mean young I am talking 18-22 range.

Which leads me to this post, how young is too young? I know this is a new century where discrimination and biases cease to exist! NOT! All BS aside, I know any people have mixed feelings about this , but how young is too young? Yes the old Cougar vs Cub argument or Kitten vs Cougar.Whatever you like to call it, older women with young men, I know that many people have mixed feelings about this such as age does not matter, but the level of maturity and experience does.There are others that think that there should be a line that is drawn when it comes down to age.  I know what my thoughts are on this but was wondering what  my invisible fans on the WORLD WIDE WEB thought?

So hypothetically speaking , if I were to pay attention to these advances, would I be dubbed a cougar? Even though I am not the one doing the hunting? Why is it that I attract all these younger men?  And is this morally wrong? Even though men have been doing it for many many moons.

Def of Cougar:

An attractive woman in her 30’s or 40’s who is on the hunt once again. She may be found in the usual hunting grounds: nightclubs, bars, beaches, etc

Let me reiterate the fact that I am not the one doing the hunting. I do not go out to these night clubs, bars beachers etc. You will often find me at driven and focused at the task at hand ; be it the gym-squatting, at home -writing, at work-working or spending quality time with my children.. I dont have the time or energy to really hunt for men, they find me. OMG am I a M.I.L.F? loltl-milf_shirt

February 22, 2009 Posted by colomitalia | Men, dating | , , , , , , , | 3 Comments