Cubs vs Cougars
As you can tell by the picture this is not a baseball blog and if that was what you wanted to read MOVE ON! For those of you that don’t know me, I blog about my relationship questions, men, boys, life, emotions etc..And I call it STUCK ON STUPID- Stupid is an adjective, it describes person, place, or time in your life where you morally know what to do but because of your emotions are too blinded to do so..Now back to the blog..
Stupid question?!
OK So I know I am not a spring chicken but then again I am not an old hen. I am a 29- year old single mom who takes pride in her outer and inner beauty. I work out 5 days a week, drink my 8 glasses of water a day and eat all my fruits and Veggies. As a result of this , I think I look good and feel even better! As a result of this,I don’t know if I am emitting some sort of pheromones, or aura but lately I have been attracting younger men, and when I mean young I am talking 18-22 range.
Which leads me to this post, how young is too young? I know this is a new century where discrimination and biases cease to exist! NOT! All BS aside, I know any people have mixed feelings about this , but how young is too young? Yes the old Cougar vs Cub argument or Kitten vs Cougar.Whatever you like to call it, older women with young men, I know that many people have mixed feelings about this such as age does not matter, but the level of maturity and experience does.There are others that think that there should be a line that is drawn when it comes down to age. I know what my thoughts are on this but was wondering what my invisible fans on the WORLD WIDE WEB thought?
So hypothetically speaking , if I were to pay attention to these advances, would I be dubbed a cougar? Even though I am not the one doing the hunting? Why is it that I attract all these younger men? And is this morally wrong? Even though men have been doing it for many many moons.
Def of Cougar:
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An attractive woman in her 30’s or 40’s who is on the hunt once again. She may be found in the usual hunting grounds: nightclubs, bars, beaches, etc
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Let me reiterate the fact that I am not the one doing the hunting. I do not go out to these night clubs, bars beachers etc. You will often find me at driven and focused at the task at hand ; be it the gym-squatting, at home -writing, at work-working or spending quality time with my children.. I dont have the time or energy to really hunt for men, they find me. OMG am I a M.I.L.F? lol
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You know I am prob not the best person to answer this question because for me the men younger than me that hit on me are in the 15-18 range :\…me being 24 and so for me it is completely out of the question however…theoretically I could see why women would opt to go for younger men…they have less of an ego than the older guys and they are usually more willing to do whatever it takes to please you (bending over backwards, trying desperately to prove themselves to you), these older dudes, ugh they’re so stuck on themselves. LOL… I mean the stigma attached to it from society is one that is difficult to ignore but in all actuality if you can tolerate and it and the person makes you happy…Then again I did see a sex in the city episode that had me in stitches…Carrie started to date this dude in his twenties and she was totally grossed out by his apartment because he didn’t know how to keep it clean. All that aside it’s really a case by case basis but there is something as being too young. 2-3 years age difference for you I think would be ok.
Niecy what age range do you attract? Personally I dont really go for younger men, its the reverse, they seek me. I was just wondering why?
Older men maybe stuck on themselves but for good reason. They have the experience that some (not all ) young men lack and are done with the games. But then again I did meet an older man who was the exception to this rule. Yeah I was just curious as to why I attract these younger men !
I mean it ranges. Mostly guys in their twenties, but there ae some dudes in their 30s that try to kick it to me too, but also alot of high school aged boys that hit on me, partly because some say I look like a high schooler, but I just think the younger guys have smaller egos and are more willing to admit that u r attractive and that they want to get with you.
I think older men that are the exception to this rule are prob either perv’s or desparate! LOL…