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Indian give me back my shit!

So you have dated or talked to  subject A for a week, month, or even year. Whatever the dynamic between you was; the time has finally come for you two to part your ways.  But just when you have thought that you have  dodged a bullet or two, you get that final one.  The bullet that is marked with the question of  “Hey can I get that shirt I loaned you over a year ago back?” Umm huh? Seriously! 

Which leads me to this post. Indian Giving in a relationship. Is it really necessary to get or give things back? I mean,  what are you really accomplishing by asking for your stuff back. Do you really need that busted up item or faded out T-Shirt? Isn’t it just easier to go to the store and buy another one. Sure there is an exception to this rule, the exception being if that item is priceless or worth over 500$ dollars. If it isn’t, I just don’t see the need to be an Indian Giver..

  I am sure we have all done it. I mean, I am guilty as charged. But is it  honestly worth the aggravation?  I mean Seriously! I really did not want that busted up I-pod that I gave him during the relationship , but I did need an excuse to  see him one last time. 

So Indian Giving in  a relationship, yay or nay..I am now at the point in my life where I don’t care if I give or get back items that we shared in the relationship, friendship or otherwise.  My piece of mind will do just fine. Maybe I am being overly analytical?

June 23, 2010 - Posted by | colomitalia, dating, Relationships, Uncategorized |

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