Friends with the ex!

I am usually one who can stay friends with the ex. My philosophy has always been if you two shared something friendship or otherwise, you are capable of being adults after the break up! Well like everything in life, there is always an exception to the rule!

With everyone around me breaking up and my own personal issues I have come to realize that staying friends with the ex is not always the best thing for your heart. I tried the whole friendship route , which usually landed me back at square one, either in his bed, hurt, or confused. I guess it takes truly falling for someone for you to understand once its over, its need to be over. If the feelings were genuine , and you thought that you found your soul mate, or true love, it can take you an eternity (not months) to get over them and unfortunately being friends will not help.

I have done some soul searching and growing over the past year and although I have not really reached adulthood I have realized that being an adult kind of sucks!If only relationships were as simple as they were when we young where Barbie meets Ken, Ken buys her a Pink Convertible, and they life in their Dream house and life the perfect plastic life. Even if Ken cheated used or lied to Mariposa Barbie with Malibu Barbie it would not matter to her because she has no soul , brain or heart.

But I do! I have feelings! I feel , hurt, and think. So I have made the big girl decision to not be friends with the past. The past is exactly that, the past its time to move on and onto better and new things. Kudos to those who are able to go through a relationship as easily as a pair of Trashy Lingere, I am that custom couture piece that is hard to find, but will withstand time.